How to Turn a Girl On

Dating News and Advice | Sunday January 31 2010 6:00 pm | Comments (0)

How to Turn a Girl On


All us men would love a magic formula to attract the opposite sex and keep them coming back for more. The truth is, there is no particular one thing that produces chemistry, but there are certain things you can do to become more attractive to the opposite sex and keep them turned on.

Firstly, women love a confident man. There are no exceptions to this rule, but be careful not to confuse confidence with arrogance. A man that makes decisions, takes the lead and generally protects his partner will without any real effort be turning her on just by his alpha male behaviour. Someone that shows off, talks about how great he is and does as he pleases will most definitely be turning that very same girl off. It is a fine line, but keep the confidence and behave like a gentlemen and you will not go far wrong.

Secondly, if you can make a woman laugh, you can be sure she will be drawn to you. Woman more than men, are attracted by what they hear and not what they see. I’m not saying have a full stand up comedy routine prepared or take a book of one line jokes out with you, but just be aware that if you can fill her with laughter, she will be far more turned on than if you have can’t make her smile. Laughter creates excitement, and in turn will have her wanting more of you.

Thirdly, don’t be too keen. There is nothing more unattractive than desperation. The line "Treat them mean, keep them keen" is slightly over the top and out-dated, but there is an element of truth in there. Do not suffocate a girl with a barrage of telephone calls or emails everyday. Keep an air of mystique about you and that little seed of not knowing that will be in her head about you will keep her wanting more. Again there is a fine line with this. Do not be too aloof or she will think you don’t care. Make sure she knows you are interested, but you also have your own independence.

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Does Your Boyfriend Want a "Break"? What Does This Really Mean?

Dating News and Advice | Sunday January 31 2010 12:00 pm | Comments (0)

Does Your Boyfriend Want a "Break"? What Does This Really Mean?


So, your boyfriend has told you that he wants a "break," whatever that’s supposed to mean. First of all, don’t automatically assume that it’s bad. This could just be a temporary hiccup in what will later turn out to be a serious, long-term relationship. Also, remember that most of us have been through this at least once, and it’s not just guys who do it.

In fact, maybe you’ve inflicted this line upon some poor boy in the past. If so, what did it mean? Maybe you weren’t even sure yourself-which is the one definite thing we can say about "breaks": They usually come from uncertainty. In many cases, the person just needs some time to be alone and think.

Your boyfriend’s probably just a little bit confused, and maybe even scared about the seriousness of your relationship. But with those underlying causes aside, let’s look at a few of the most common reasons why boyfriends ask for breaks.

1. He’s too timid to break up. This is the worst-case scenario. Let’s face it: There are some boys and men out there who are just too weak to break up with a girl. This is somewhat understandable, as breaking up is hard, but it’s also a little mean. If you suspect that this may be the case with your boyfriend, try to wait a few days and see what happens. All will become clear.

2. He’s scared of commitment. Have you been pressuring your boyfriend to get more serious? If so, this may have set off his alarm bells, and he could be unconsciously punishing you by withdrawing from the relationship. If so, just give him time, and he’s sure to come back.

3. He needs some alone time. Many men thrive on being alone. Maybe your boyfriend has been feeling a little bit crowded, and he just wants to get back to doing the things he occupies himself with when he’s not in a relationship. If you think this may be the case, let him have his alone time. And when you get back together, let him know that you’re sensitive to his need for occasional solitude.

4. He’s interested in someone else. It’s possible that there’s another person who has caught his eye, and he wants to explore that new person without feeling like he’s cheating on you. Guys who do this probably aren’t worth your time in the first place. Honesty is one of the most important qualities in a serious relationship, so if he’s pulling these deceptive tricks on you, you should probably just let him go.

5. He wants to play. Although we may not like it, it’s a simple fact of life that young men like to fool around, and they like to do so with as many different girls as possible. Most eventually reach a point where they’re ready for a serious relationship, but different men have different timeframe for this. Maybe your boyfriend just wants to get back out there and have fun without being tied down. There’s nothing morally wrong with this-and he’s only young once-so you shouldn’t take it personally. In fact, maybe it’s time for you to have a little fun yourself.

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How Do I Know If a Girl Likes Me? 3 Amazing Ways to Read Her Mind and See If She Really Likes You!

Dating News and Advice | Sunday January 31 2010 6:00 am | Comments (0)

How Do I Know If a Girl Likes Me? 3 Amazing Ways to Read Her Mind and See If She Really Likes You!


Guys, it’s a fact that girls will not openly admit that they actually like you. Even if a girl is crazy about you, even if she thinks about you night and day, she will never admit it! She might even act as if she is uninterested and ignore you completely.

So, how do you find out if a girl really fancies you? There are actually some hints that you need to somehow ‘decipher’. Read on to discover the signs that will help you understand if girl really likes you…..

How To Find Out If A Girl Likes You - 3 Surefire Signs That She Is Crazy About You

  • Direct Eye Contact -
    If she looks directly into your eyes every time you talk to her, then she probably likes you, especially if the contact lasts longer than normally. Sometimes she even follows you with her eyes when you walk away and when you look back at her she looks away. The eye contact is a "little too long" and her pupils may dilate every time she sees you. On the other hand, if she does not hold eye contact and she looks off elsewhere instead, then she is not attracted to you (not yet!).

  • Body language-
    The best way to find out whether a woman likes you or not is to watch her body language. If she really fancies you she will not be able to relax around you. She will try really hard to look her best and act her best in order to impress you. All this internal pressure will show on her face. She’ll fidget and wet her lips. Her face might become flushed every time she sees you. Also, many times when girls like someone they laugh or giggle more than usual, so expect her to always laugh at your jokes. This girl will try to be around you as much as possible and she may touch your arm, shoulder, or hands every time she talks to you.

  • Complete Focus-
    If a woman really finds you attractive, she will focus on you all the time. She will always ask you personal questions and of course she will want to find out if you have a girlfriend. She will be interested even about minor details about your personal life. This woman will remember everything you tell her during a conversation and she’ll constantly seek your attention and approval. She will praise you on anything you do or say and you will look perfect in her eyes.

    Now listen carefully-

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How to Boost Your Seduction Powers - Using 3 Killer Attraction Tactics of the Master Seducers

Dating News and Advice | Sunday January 31 2010 12:00 am | Comments (0)

How to Boost Your Seduction Powers - Using 3 Killer Attraction Tactics of the Master Seducers


If you are like the majority of men in today’s world, you should know that there is only one way to successfully seduce a woman: by hitting on her. This might seems fairly easy in the beginning since all you have to do is approach a woman you like and ask for her phone number, right? But you should have come to the realization by now that it is actually much trickier to get a phone number than you may have originally thought.

Getting rejected by women shouldn’t be too much of a problem if your rejection rate happens to be on the low side. However, if you constantly get rejected, regardless of how many changes you make in your game, you really need to steal the tactics I am about to share with you to finally guarantee yourself dates with women. Keep reading to find out 3 deadly tactics that will get you instant results…

How To Boost Your Seduction Powers - Using 3 Killer Attraction Tactics of the Master Seducers

Deadly Tactic Number One: Make improvements to your overall personality. Take a good look at yourself and be completely honest. Is there any way you can make changes to your personality in order to make yourself much more attractive in the eyes of women you may be interested in? Do you groom yourself well? Do you dress well? Do you constantly put your best foot forward?

Think about these things and change your mindset, too, while remembering to stay positive at all times. Your levels of confidence happen to be vital factors in your personality when it comes to dating and making quick fixes to it could lead to greater success in no time when it comes to women.

Keep in mind that the primary trait that could get you any woman that you want would be confidence. If you get the power to appear naturally confident, women are sure to flock to your side.

Deadly Tactic Number Two: Be a blast to hang out with. Men who have the ability to make others smile, laugh and feel great will be able to catch the attention of any woman in the nearby vicinity, as well. After getting several people interested in you, women around you are sure to follow suit. The best thing about this is the fact that you can be your usual fun self and attract women with ease.

Conversely, the greatest sin in dating would be to appear boring. If you can come across as the life of any party, you should have no trouble whatsoever in seducing women by the truckload.

Deadly Tactic Number Three: Be a magnetic conversationalist. Once you get the attention of a woman, your entire goal should shift. Since you already have the woman within your grasp and success is a mere fingertip away, it would be time to seal the deal with some magnetic conversations. One way to do this would be through methods of hypnosis, which happen to be smart ways to get women fall for you on an emotional level in only 15 minutes. Once you get a woman giddy with emotion, you can be sure that she will think of nobody else but you for quite some time.

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Dating Conversational Tactics - How to Emotionally Draw Your Date Into Any Conversation Easily!

Dating News and Advice | Saturday January 30 2010 6:00 am | Comments (0)

Dating Conversational Tactics - How to Emotionally Draw Your Date Into Any Conversation Easily!


What if you could sit down with a woman, and within a matter of minutes have her emotionally drawn towards you? What if you could also sit down with any woman and instantly have her laughing, smiling, and completely engaged within a few minutes as well?

Well, my friend, as hard as it is for most men to start an engaging conversation, you are about to find out the secrets which will allow you to emotionally draw your date into any conversation easily. Read on to find out these dating conversational tactics….

- Lightening things up- The quickest and easiest way to get a woman involved in your conversation, is to lighten things up. Guys are generally so serious when approaching women, and when on a first date, that she instantly gets bored and wishes she would have just stayed home. That’s not how you want her thinking or feeling either, so lighten things up.

- Asking her engaging questions- Don’t sit there interviewing her as if she is about to get some big job, in fact, don’t even ask her any questions about her personal life just yet. Instead, ask her engaging questions, and even embarrassing ones.

One of my favorite ones is the one that my friend uses, and it goes like this: "So when did you last pee in the shower?". Instantly she will be shocked and amused, and you can watch her body language too to see if she is too shy to answer you honestly.

It may sound crazy, but the fact of the matter is, this type of approach works, because it’s not what she is expecting, and it also breaks the ice extremely fast. In the end, it will open her up like a book, simply because you are not acting rigid, and you are showing her that you are not afraid to lead, especially in a very outgoing way.

- If all else fails, Hollywood never does- OK, so let’s say you are just not ready for the above yet, how do you get into it and learn to be engaging and humorous? Well, you simply talk about all of those scandals and lies floating around from Hollywood, because last time I checked, almost everyone is interested in something related to that, because the stories are emotionally engaging.

People love to hear about tragedies, scandals, and all kinds of other things…because it shows them that they are doing better in their own life. Don’t be afraid to add your own humorous twist to the topic as well.

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