Dating Tips For Workaholics - How to Keep Your Relationship With Your Ex Intact
Success does not come cheap these days. And this statement may have been so much impressed in your mind that even if you ever wanted, you are not able to put work second to anything, especially to something like dating, without which you can easily do. This has caused you problems in your relationships in the past as none seem to last.
Actually, many of us have this tendency to believe that dating and romance come close to the end of the priority list. Successful people who are engrossed in their work 24×7 cannot do with this. They believe relationships are not the most important things so to speak. Agreed relationships are not the most significant of all, but they are crucially important nevertheless.
A workaholic person sometimes knowingly ignores his dating plans, and cancels off the date in the late moment choosing the work pressures over a potentially interesting date. Or, they may not be doing it consciously. Passion for staying back late night in the office is what their idea of the beginning of a weekend is. And they are happy about it. Well, at least they are assuring that they will be successful and stay sufficiently wealthy for rest of their lives. After all, hard work pays off, does it not?
It is true that work comes close to worship, but what many of us do not realize is that the slow paced harmful effects of incessant working and no relaxation or fun will demean the such-gained success in no time. A chain of such events when you keep canceling your dates with your partner are a sure-shot way to drive them away from you. And when they do go away, you have another reason to sneer and be scornful about the whole "dating and relationships" game, and you decide to further drown yourself in work. This becomes a cycle for you. Suddenly one day though, when years pass by, you realize that you have every thing that counts materialistically, but you have zero assets in the relationships’ area. You have no one to look forward to, no one to be with you, no one to laugh with and, no one to cry with.
Okay, I know that sounds grim. Let us just come back to now and not get hypothetical. In short, you know that every area in life needs a balancing out. So, do not neglect your love life if you are a workaholic. You need a strategy of balancing out your life. This is not always easy and it calls for patience from your partner.
To ease your dating activities so that you have to invest much less in finding a date, there are Online Dating sites where you can find like minded people in heaps. You will be asked to fill in your preferences and some details about you, and you would start getting dates from thereon. OK, maybe not so easily if all you write in your profile is your work thesis.
Better still since you had already invested time and effort in your previous relationship why not reconnect with your ex?
To enjoy both your work and love life, you can take along your ex to business related social invites where your business contacts can meet your significant other. your ex will feel more involved in your life that way.
Also, when out on a date, keep your work aside, and do not attend to work-related calls or answer their e-mails. Make it clear that you are going to be unavailable on the weekend. Do not make your ex feel they are neglected!
Keeping in mind such tidbits can help boost your dating scene just like your work. They can also help you keep your relationship with your ex intact.
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