What A Man Needs In Love - What Your Boyfriend REALLY Needs, No Matter What He Tells You
Do you know what a man needs in a relationship? It’s sometimes hard to tell, because men often say one thing but mean another! Men almost never tell you what they need or want, so instead of trying to figure it out yourself, read this article!
Is He Insecure About His Job?
If you’re a successful career woman, then you have probably experienced some problems while trying to meet a man. Everything is going well and you’re both having a good time until he asks you where you work or what you do. From past experience, you probably have the urge to lie and make something up. That’s because as soon as he hears about your job, the atmosphere seems to change.
Although he says all the right things, like "Wow, that’s great," you know that he’s really finding it hard to accept that a woman is more successful than he is. It’s a "man" thing. And while not all men have these sentiments, it’s best to stay away from men who do.
And what you need to do is find a man who won’t be bothered by your success; one who feels confident enough in his own success to embrace yours. If he feels the slightest bit intimidated by you, move on. Quickly.
Get Him Involved
Once you get past the success thing, it’s time to get serious about figuring out what he’s looking for in a woman. With so many available women around, if he’s attracted to you, then you must be doing something right.
What a man needs is to feel valued and important to the woman he cares about. Make him feel this way and you’ll be on the right track. Even though you’re an independent woman who is capable of making her own decisions and taking care of things on your own, be sure to lean on your man at least a little.
If you’re working through a problem, ask for his thoughts on the matter. Instead of taking control and making plans for the weekend without consulting him, let him take over and make the plans. Don’t be afraid to show your emotions. At work, emotion can be viewed as sign of weakness, so we learn to keep them in check. But at home, let him see how you feel so he can comfort you if you’re upset or sad.
Know How He Acts, Thinks, And Feels When He’s In Love
He also needs to feel that spark of excitement that comes from being attracted to a woman. That spark will get things going but it’s well worth fanning the flames because this will lead to a warm loving bond between the two of you.
If you can understand what a man needs and then give it to him, you can be almost guaranteed to have a long and happy relationship together.
Want to know more about how men act, think, and feel when they’re in love? Then I’d love to help you!